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Hello

you have a very high load on the server

with a site nothing happens, just your website creates a burden

20539 august20 20 0 492m 58m 5592 R 3.3 0.2 0:05.61 /usr/sbin/httpd
20565 august20 20 0 615m 87m 5968 R 3.3 0.3 0:04.28 /usr/sbin/httpd
19538 august20 20 0 579m 52m 6136 R 3.0 0.2 0:27.37 /usr/sbin/httpd
20151 august20 20 0 616m 88m 5944 R 3.0 0.3 0:18.53 /usr/sbin/httpd
20507 august20 20 0 619m 91m 5944 R 3.0 0.3 0:07.23 /usr/sbin/httpd
20514 august20 20 0 494m 60m 5848 R 3.0 0.2 0:05.63 /usr/sbin/httpd
20518 august20 20 0 515m 82m 5664 R 3.0 0.3 0:05.98 /usr/sbin/httpd
20520 august20 20 0 617m 88m 5852 R 3.0 0.3 0:06.24 /usr/sbin/httpd
20580 august20 20 0 103m 640m 8192 R 3.0 0.3 0:05.43 /usr/sbin/httpd
20917 august20 20 0 492m 58m 5620 R 3.0 0.2 0:01.65 /usr/sbin/httpd
20990 august20 20 0 524m 89m 5704 R 3.0 0.3 0:02.77 /usr/sbin/httpd
21023 august20 20 0 522m 89m 5784 R 3.0 0.3 0:03.54 /usr/sbin/httpd
7040 august20 20 0 606m 71m 9416 R 2.7 0.2 2:50.24 /usr/sbin/httpd
20516 august20 20 0 625m 97m 5976 R 2.7 0.3 0:06.59 /usr/sbin/httpd
20581 august20 20 0 588m 60m 5992 R 2.7 0.2 0:05.94 /usr/sbin/httpd

what have you changed on the website? how many visitors? have projecile attacks on websites?

now the load has fallen 3 times

on a normal hosting, you exceeded the load limit for the rates of shared hosting. now you have your own server where you do not interfere with anyone and can work.

ok